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ShovelEach time I think the GOP presidential nomination process has hit rock bottom one of the candidates produces yet another shovel. This past weekend ‘The Newt’ (as I’ve taken to refer to him) managed to slam dunk the South Carolina primary in a major upset that’s left everyone scratching their heads…And I mean everyone.

What’s so confusing is the complete lack of fealty toward traditional Conservative doctrine, like family values and free-markets . Instead, the voters in South Carolina approved of a misogynistic adulterer and disapproved of a classic 20th Century vulture-capitalist. The howls of protest and lament coming from various factions within the Republican party and pundits are truly remarkable to behold. Just listen to what Chris Christie, Ann Coulter and Glenn Beck have to say.

So here we are, three major events into the nomination process and it is anybodies guess who’s going to come out on top. Silos are clearly deepening within the Conservative movement. Last week I discovered cracks may actually be forming in the Christian base after viewing the now famous poem “Why I Hate Religion” (shared below) by a young Christian youth minister and poet named Jeff Bethke.

It didn’t take much digging to learn Jeff is not some irreligious atheist with a taste for slamming the church. To the contrary, he is a respected member of a large Christian church in the Pacific Northwest. This kid lives for Jesus. Now I don’t want to put words in his mouth, yet there it is…He calls out Christians for equating themselves with Republicans twice before the first minute of his poem is over.

For my own part, like many liberals, I am quite amused with the situation. Watching the GOP spin its wheels for months while the Democrats fill their war chests isn’t going to bring me the kind of progress I hope for, but it is still the lesser of two evils. So keep digging conservatives…There’s bound to be a candidate on whom you can agree down there in the mud somewhere.

Jan
11
Posted by jakedimare at 3:11 am

My latest contribution to the Good Men Project was published today. I’m pleased to say, despite a somewhat controversial topic, it’s been warmly received. These are the conversations I want to have today. Small talk is dead…I want to get right to the core of someone’s values and see what makes us tick.

Jan
09
Posted by jakedimare at 11:07 pm

“I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma, a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.”

― Umberto Eco

 

It's a long walk to the bathroom, but you can't go for another 4 hours anyways.

Over the last few years I’ve absorbed a lot of derision for my general objections to Apple. Particularly for my insistent criticism of  Steve Jobs and the lack of Apple’s social responsibility standards with regards to supply chain practices. I truly don’t care if it changes anyone’s mind but I guess part of me hopes anyone who uses Apple products will listen to this report.

The truth is, I know 90% the electronic devices we use here in America are manufactured under similar conditions. I don’t even know why it annoys me so much more with Apple but I suspect the sanctimonious marketing and attitude of Apple consumers has something to do with it.  I also think Steve Job’s public resistance to any kind of corporate responsibility and charity adds to my disgust.

It truly is overwhelming to think we’ve allowed corporations to push other people into these circumstances after we fought so hard in this country to end this type of treatment.  The way I hear some people talk sometimes it is as if Americans think Chinese laborers want to work 16 hours a day for pennies with no bathroom breaks. That they want to live stacked up on top of each other like cord wood.

The real problem, like just about everything in our lives today, is a lack of sufficient regulation on corporations. At some point the discordant rift between human rights and corporate profits must end. What will life be like on this planet when it does? If Americans stood up and said this situation is no longer acceptable…That we will boycott any company that allows it to happen and vote out any politicians that allow it to take place…What would life be like?

Jan
03
Posted by jakedimare at 4:27 am

It’s real now. I mean, it was always real but Jackie and I have signed a contract with a venue, set a date and launched our own wedding blog. Game on! We’re getting married on November 10th, 2012 at the Hampshire House in Boston. I couldn’t be happier with the location…It’s a beautiful spot in Beacon Hill with a view of the Public Gardens.

From this point forward I will try to keep my wedding blogging on the wedding blog.

Jake and Jackie in Cape Coral

Cape Coral, Fl

 

Boy Soldier

Playing the part... (Credit: Felix Ordonez)

I’m preparing to resume writing fiction. I say ‘resume’ because this is something I did as a child and young man. For now the only goal is to write a series of short stories around a fictional male character living around twenty-five years in the future. The work will be an exploration of consciousness, manhood, maturity and the evolving nature of intimacy and relationships in a world of accelerating change and hyper-connectivity.

The backdrop for the first story or two will definitely be a battlefield, with a twist. I haven’t yet named my main character but I am leaning towards names beginning with the letter J. This is probably because there will be a somewhat autobiographical slant to his perspective.

Why am I doing this? I mean, besides the obvious objective of getting published and having a Hollywood movie made out of something I imagined so I can retire on a sailboat and stop working forever? Well, to be honest, it recently occurred to me that when compared to the editorial essays I’ve had published over the last few months, fiction is a relatively low risk mechanism to sort out what it means to be a man. And it seems like more fun.

ScroogedThis year for the holidays stick it to the man and consider buying only local products and services as gifts. Buying local supports the local economy, fights globalization, is better for the environment and will send a message to corporations who engage in exploitative labor practices overseas. The only power normal American citizens have left is where we buy stuff so exercise your power!

In support of this goal, please share your favorite local products and services in the comments section of this post. Don’t forget to share the location!

For instance, I recently learned the Official Manufacturer of Navy Peacoats is located in East Boston. In addition to the traditional coats they sell to the Department of Defense, they have a consumer line of outerwear for men, women and children.

Check it out: http://sterlingwear.com/

 

 

Last Friday night I had an incredible, cultural experience with my lovely fiance and best friend Jackie. It featured Italian men in ridiculously tight pants, women wearing far too much make-up, lust, sex, street brawling, double suicide…Frankly, more drama than you can shake a stick at. I’m talking long drawn out death scenes, and young Italian women throwing themselves on the ground and wailing at their father’s feet for not allowing them to date who they want to. Total chaos. The kind of stuff MTV makes hundreds of millions of dollars peddling to young people every year.

Sounds like Jersey Shore eh? At the time it was written it just may have been. However, I am pleased to report I still have not watched a full episode of ‘the shore’. Everything I know about that stain on our nation’s cultural heritage is still gleaned through trusted, third-party reports.

The show we attended was the Boston Ballet performance of William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet. Aside from the Nutcracker, which every kid in Boston sits through eventually…This was my first experience with live Ballet. I’m not afraid to admit I was incredibly impressed.

Link to Romeo and Juliet That the Boston Ballet is a world class dance company and it was a flawless performance should not come as a surprise to anyone. However, being somewhat uninitiated with the art, I was genuinely blown away. The level of athleticism, grace and elegance demonstrated by ballet dancers at the height of their game is truly impressive.

However, that’s only one part of the pageantry that make up the overall experience of attending this show. The performers are supported by breathtaking sets, gorgeous costumes and a phenomenal orchestra. The combination of these arts transports the audience to another time and place where the scenery may be different…But what motivates the characters are remarkably identifiable aspirations…passion, romance, respect.

It seems appropriate at this time in our history to point out there are amazing alternatives to the entertainment provided by television. So I’ll end with another nod to the ongoing movement to occupy our attention. This holiday season, consider supporting the arts instead of enriching the bank accounts of greedy corporations.

Oct
28
Posted by jakedimare at 12:27 am
Kittens

Emma (Left) and Ella checking out their new home...

…Yeah right. That’s exactly what a crazy cat person (CCP) would say.

Jackie and I rescued a pair of kittens from the MSPCA last weekend. Adding Ella and Emma to our family brings the total number of cats up to four. If I am not mistaken, situations where there are two humans and four cats in cohabitation officially indicates ‘borderline CCP personality disorder’. However, once you factor in all the mitigating circumstances in our specific case (average age of humans, lack of children, size of living quarters), we are well into the CCP spectrum.

All kidding aside though, I’m grateful one of the ways I can step up and give some of what I have is by rescuing and caring for animals. I genuinely get way more out of the experience than I put into it.

Ella and Emma are settling into life at home nicely. Emma, the larger and more outgoing of the two is the most affectionate cat I’ve met in a long, long time. Although she also enjoys exploring, running and playing…When it’s time to cuddle she’s all in. Ella, who we postulate is the runt of her litter, is quite shy with people but loves playing with toys and the other cats.

Oct
10

The Good Men ProjectI’ve written three articles for the Good Men Project so far but I’m not sure I am any closer to being a good man myself. In fact, I don’t think I even know what it takes to be a good man. Check out my articles and tell me, what do you think?

One thing I have learned is speaking out and writing articles about values, ethics, morality and politics has the strong potential to be a polarizing endeavor. I’m guessing this has a lot to do with my personality as well. I’m much better at passionate/evangelist than neutral/journalist.

Before I write my next piece I am going to do some thinking about what it is I am trying to get out of writing for the Good Men Project. Besides better reach, what’s the difference between my writing for Good Men or here on my own blog? I know there is an answer…I just haven’t really defined it yet.